I took my wife to the range today to shoot her CW9 and my PM9. (She didn't want to shoot my CW45.) Both the CW and PM were really jumping in her hands. That might be due to their thin grips. I'm going to work with her on her grip, but if that ends up not helping much, what can some of you recommend with still decent power but less recoil? One of the salesguys at the range suggested the Sig P232. I ran into a friend there a few minutes later and he said that he has a Sig P230 that he might be interested in selling or trading. I know that's a .380 and pretty much at the bottom of the recommended size caliber for self-defense, but the salesguy said that the recoil would be much less. Any experienced opinions here? Her trigger finger reaches better on the CW9 than the Sig 232, too. My wife is 5'1" and about 110 lbs.......blue eyed and a little babe.